Monday, August 19, 2013

A bittersweet ending to the season

In a somewhat anticlimactic fashion, my first season with River Plate ended yesterday. A season filled with celebrations, disappointments, team drama, team bonding, travel, Yanquis, and maté came to a close with a nonchalant 4-0 home victory over the Universidad de Buenos Aires (UBA). It was a slightly different atmosphere than our home opener against Boca about three months ago. Both teams were fighting for the title and River took the field with anticipation and excitement for the chance for revenge against our biggest rival.

Yesterday, we were playing for little more than pride. As of last weekend, the league winner was already decided, Boca was crowned champion, and River was yet again forced to watch the celebrations from the outside. Thus, our main motivation for our last game came from a desire to prepare for the upcoming season and solidify our spot in the starting lineup. A weak UBA team served as our opponent, providing some competition in the first half while only allowing one goal from the penalty spot. In the second half, UBA more or less stepped aside in the second half and served as a practice squad as my teammates passed circles around them and scored three goals. The final scoreline could have been much closer to 10-0 had our attackers been slightly more effective with their goal scoring opportunities. Let's just say in the second half, I did not touch the ball once with my hands...

In the time between lunch and warm-up, usually a couple of hours spent relaxing and focusing on the upcoming match, our coach took our team, and my dad (who, along with my mom and sister, is in Argentina for a couple weeks), to see the River Plate Museum. The museum is right next door to the stadium and, for soccer fans, is definitely a place worth visiting while in Buenos Aires. Though I am not a massive River Plate fan, as in I don't live or die based on the weekend's result nor do I know the names of all the great (and not-so-great) players who have passed through the club, it was impressive to see the number of league championships and international cups the team has won since its birth in 1901.

Watching clips of games throughout the past century, triumphs and defeats alike, I thought about how, in comparison to the time and energy spent in training and preparation, the celebrations after winning a big game or even a championship last only an instant – a night, a day, a week at most – before the team must begin getting ready for the next challenge. The fans who witness the victory also celebrate, perhaps for a bit longer than the team itself, but only until the next season begins and the incessant desire for silverware drives them to hate and curse the players they were hailing as heroes only moments before.

For big teams like River Plate, one season without a trophy seems like a decade and two seasons is already an eternity. Greatness is expected, and the failure to succeed results in sackings of managers and players alike. In Argentina, teams even suffer violent attacks at the hands of their adoring fans. When River Plate was relegated to the second division a couple of years ago, fans (some of whom were not part of the Barra Brava, the thugs who are behind most soccer-related violence) ravaged the Monumental, vandalizing the cafeteria and tearing apart the seats in the stands among other things. The players and team staff had to be escorted out of the stadium with extreme levels of security for fear regarding their personal safety.

My coach, a product of River Plate's youth development program, wrapped up the idea with this roughly translated phrase, "You only celebrate championships until your next training session, but the bitterness of defeat lingers longer, at least until you win a trophy." It's a phrase which rang true as I saw videos and pictures of Boca's celebrations all last week. It's a phrase which reflects something simultaneously glorious and awful in soccer: last season is over, the results are in the past, the achievements and failures of the year are in the books and serve as little more than a memory, and every team begins the new season with 0 wins and 0 losses, an equal shot at glory. Now, keeping my coach's words in mind, River has a couple of weeks to prepare for the new season, to incorporate a few new signings, and adjust to the absence of a few former starters who will not be returning to the team. I'm more than slightly excited.

"Vamos, vamos, vamos River Plate!" Here's to another opportunity for growth, for new experiences, and for a championship, however brief the celebration might be.


Also, this is not exactly related to my post, but below is a very interesting short video (with English subtitles) about women's soccer in Argentina produced by Univision News. A few of my friends and teammates from River and the National Team are featured.


Friday, August 9, 2013

Venturing into the Villa 31: Soccer in the slums of Buenos Aires

Like all big cities, Buenos Aires has parts where you just don't go. The Villa 31 is one such place. Los villeros, a not-so-nice term referring to those who live in the villas, have all sorts of not-so-nice stereotypes associated with where they live and the kind of people they are: violent, illegal, tacky, stupid, to name a few. Granted, some labels may be based upon some hint of truth; for example, there is a huge drug problem in the villas of Buenos Aires and, as in other parts of the world, a strong drug trade brings with it significant levels of violence and crime, as gangs fight for control of profits. Despite these sweeping stereotypes, however, the vast majority are people who moved to Buenos Aires from other parts of Argentina or from neighboring countries with almost nothing, many even without documents, searching for a more stable economic situation and for better opportunities for their families

In general, Porteños, including residents of humble neighborhoods, or barrios, look down upon those who live in the villas. They are almost forgotten about, and though they are physically located in the city of Buenos Aires, the villas are a kind of parallel society, living alongside but not within the porteño culture. The residents of the Villa 31 take center stage only when they protest, blocking major avenues and causing massive traffic jams, just outside their neighborhood in Retiro, a major train and bus station in the heart of the city.

Until a couple weeks ago, I had only heard about the Villa 31; I had never ventured in nor had the idea even crossed my mind as a possibility. Then, while talking to my ex-Rice teammate and honorary River compañera Gabi, she mentioned that she had been invited, along with her mother and sister, to help run a soccer clinic for girls in the Villa (Click here to watch a short video about the program).  Curiosity got the best of me, and I asked if I could tag along (Mom, don't get mad; if it makes it any better, we'll just pretend that Gabi's family forced me to go...). Of course, I made sure they were going with somebody who was known in the Villa and who would be accompanying us during the clinic...

Perhaps this is the right moment to explain a little about how the opportunity came about for Gabi's family to be involved in the clinic. In 2006, Gabi and her sister started the project Futbol 4 Dreams with the goal of gathering 100 soccer balls to send to refugee children. Since then, the organization has  grown into a volunteer-run and donation-supported organization which works alongside high school clubs and with international schools to send over 3,000 hand-decorated, personalized soccer balls and other sports equipment to children who lack the resources to purchase their own gear. Along with the equipment, the organization hopes to share not only the game of soccer/football with the children but also many of the values which come with the game. Football is "a fun, dynamic activity we can share together no matter who we are, where we come from, or where we are going" (Futbol 4 Dreams).

Long story short, Futbol 4 Dreams recently donated a set of soccer balls and uniforms to the girls' soccer team of Villa 31. The team is composed of about forty girls of all ages, some as young as five or six and others who are over thirty and already are mothers and wives. When Gabi's family notified the team's coach, Monica, that they would be in Buenos Aires for a bit, she invited them to help run a Thursday night training session and to talk to the girls afterward, as the team already has a set weekly training schedule. The girls train on Tuesday and Thursday evenings on a turf field in the middle of the Villa, which is exclusively theirs during training (although they do have to share with the occasional stray dog and rogue, young child). After training on Thursdays, Monica leads life discussions with the girls in the Villa's community center. They also often have games and tournaments on weekends, to which they travel not by team bus but by public transportation.

We met Monica and a group of other girls in the train station at Retiro and followed them through the entire bus terminal until we headed into the Villa. On our way to the field, we mainly walked along the outer limit of the Villa, where one side of the street was lined with shoddily built brick shacks and the other with the warehouses and garages of the different bus companies. Finally, we turned onto one of the side streets of the Villa and were officially inside, though it was not exactly what I had expected. While there were some of the stereotypical dirt pathways associated with shantytowns all over the world, many of the streets were paved, at least partially, and it seemed as though residents were working on improving their current sewage system. Through the streets an interesting blend of smells reached my nose – meat on the grill, freshly baked bread, rotting sewage, and recently-smoked marijuana.

Despite the precarious appearance of many of the buildings, when we would catch glimpses of the houses' interiors, the rooms were often filled with decent furniture, the floors were covered with tile or cement (in contrast to the dirt floors I had seen on mission trips to Costa Rica and the Dominican Republic), and many rooms had a TV. Granted, the homes were not luxurious by any stretch of the imagination, but they were certainly in better condition than what I had imagined.

When we arrived to the field, we paused for a moment before entering the fenced-in pitch. It was unlike any field I had ever seen, not the field itself but the backdrop. Surrounding the field was a collage of multicolored square rooms stacked one on top of the other, each floor connected only by a spiral staircase along the side of the building. Behind each goal were sets of wooden stands held up by cinderblocks, which would later be occupied by a few fans, most likely brothers or friends of the girls. Some of the younger girls were already kicking a ball around until a dog appeared out of the blue, decided he wanted to play, and trotted away with the ball in his mouth quite pleased with himself. The turf appeared to be in decent condition until we stepped onto it. It was basically a green carpet laid directly on top of concrete. Monica explained that the government had build the field a couple years ago as a social project but had rushed the construction and laid the carpet badly, resulting in uneven parts where the carpet was beginning to bunch and separate from the concrete base. However, the turf was a significant upgrade from the rock-hard dirt which had previously served as the playing surface.

Here are a couple pictures from my cell phone which sort of capture the setting (I only wish the sky had turned out better because the sunset was incredible that evening...):

If you look closely at the blur on the right side of the picture, you can see the dog version of Messi.
Within fifteen minutes of our arrival, the field had filled with more than 40 girls and women of all ages. Some were dressed in cleats and shorts while others were in jeans and sneakers, but all were ready to play. The training session officially started with a brief introduction of why we had come and a short ice-breaker before we broke off into two groups. The youngest went with Gabi's older sister while Gabi and I worked with the older girls. After about a half hour of skill work, Monica divided the older girls into three teams for a full field match, assigning Gabi, her older sister, and I to teams as well.

As soon as we began to play, any sort of awkwardness I may have felt fell away. On the field, I was just like the rest of the girls. All social, economic, or cultural differences disappeared as we worked as a team, moving the ball around the field, communicating to teammates, celebrating goals, and laughing at silly mistakes.

At one point, one of my teammates called my name to get my attention. "Here, you dropped some money! I think it fell out of your jacket." As a precaution, I had taken little to nothing with me into the villa just my ID, a little cash, and my keys which I had placed in my sports bra. Somehow my cash had managed to fall out (I guess I was playing harder than what I had thought). Even though it wasn't a significant amount of cash, the girl who picked it up might have really needed it for herself or for her family – to pay for food, bills, rent, etc. – but instead, without hesitation, she gave it back to me. I don't know, but something about that moment really hit me. Some of the stereotypes of the villeros came to mind, especially about the ones related to their economic situation, and I began to think how unfair those stereotypes are.

Automatically these girls are discounted, not even given a chance by society when it discovers where they live even though the majority move to the villa as children or are born there with no say in the matter. One of the younger girls, a beautiful, tiny twelve year old with some serious skills, told me about her older sister who had started off playing with the team in the Villa and was now playing with the Reserves at River while finishing up high school and planning to continue her education to become a physical education teacher. The young girl wanted to follow in the footsteps of her older sister, using soccer as a way to get out of the Villa and to pursue a career which requires education beyond secondary school. For now, however, she was content to continue playing with the team in the Villa until an opportunity arises to join a more competitive club.

For the older girls, soccer provides an escape from the difficulties they face on a daily basis. For the women who are already mothers, soccer is a chance to forget about all the responsibilities which come with raising a child. For the youngest, soccer is a time when they can be kids again, running around without having their parents worry about their safety. For all the girls, soccer teaches them to be strong in a culture which often depreciates women and subjects them to domestic abuse – physical, emotional, or both. All they need is a ball, a field, and the opportunity to play, which, thanks to Monica, her helpers, and Futbol 4 Dreams, they now have.

Friday, August 2, 2013

A Yanqui Invasion!


Well, this month has absolutely flown by. After the trip to Bariloche with River, a weekend in Córdoba with my grandpa, and a ten-day visit from my aunt and cousin, July has come and gone.

The first week of June, my aunt came to visit and was able to come watch me train at River. She was impressed by the abilities of many of my teammates and noticed a significant difference between the style of play she was used to with her fourteen-year-old daughter's youth team and the style of play here in Argentina. She was even more impressed when I pointed out two of our youngest players who are the same age as my cousin yet can keep up with girls who are anywhere from four to thirteen years older. During our post-practice merienda at the club, my aunt started talking to my coach about the possibility of bringing her daughter to train with the team for a couple weeks in July or August, an idea which my coach, who is always happy to bring in new players, enthusiastically supported.

After practice and for the rest of my aunt's visit, she and I spoke mainly about the team and women's soccer in general in Argentina. As I began explaining the situations of many of the girls – the financial and family issues many of them struggle with – my aunt grew eager to help in any way she could. After brainstorming a few ideas, thinking about finding potential team sponsors or donors, coming up with potential contacts for international trips with the team, we decided the most tangible, though short-term, help she could provide would be to bring cleats for the girls who most needed them the next time she came to Buenos Aires.

Thus, about two weeks ago, my aunt arrived to the International Airport in Ezeiza with my cousin (L), my cousin's friend (C), my cousin's friend's parents, and fifteen pairs of soccer cleats (not including those of my cousin and her friend), which she somehow managed to get through customs without any issues. My cousin and her friend deserve some serious props. The very same day they landed in Buenos Aires, they came to train at River with girls who, on average, are about five or six years older and much stronger. Their short stay in Buenos Aires opened their young eyes to a whole new world of soccer and lifestyle than the world they are so used to in the US.

Got cleats?

Before delving into L and C's experience here, it might be worthwhile to provide some background on the youth soccer scene in the US (or at least the one my cousin and her friend are a part of in South Florida). In general, competitive soccer is a fairly elitist sport in the US, meaning parents must pay significant sums for their child to join a club team, for their child's gear, for travel to tournaments around the state and even to other states. To give their child a competitive edge, many parents also pay for private training with conditioning and position coaches and buy their child the newest and best gear (a new pair of elite cleats can run anywhere from $120 to $250).

Until college, most female players (in competitive soccer) train with their club teams two to three times per week and have one to two games on the weekends. The majority of players get to soccer practice and games by car, whether they drive themselves or ride with their parents. While there are players who have to drive more than an hour to training, on average, most players have a commute closer to a half-hour or fifteen minutes.

I'm not saying any of this as a criticism (after all it's basically the same system I grew up playing in and  the US is one of the countries in which women's soccer is highly developed and valued), but merely to give an idea of where L and C are coming from in order to understand why they were so surprised and sometimes shocked at certain aspects of women's soccer in Argentina. Perhaps my cousin was slightly more prepared than her friend since my aunt had talked to her a little bit about my teammates' home situations. C struggled even to grasp why my aunt had to bring so many pairs of cleats for the girls. "Don't they sell cleats in Argentina??"

They quickly began to empathize with my Argentine teammates after taking the bus a few times. Not too unsurprisingly, my aunt and C's parents were slightly hesitant to let their daughters travel by public transport to training (obviously not alone), but I insisted it was an essential part of understanding what the girls on the team have to do every day to get to the club. Here's my cousin's brief description (word-for-word) of her Buenos Aires bus experience:

"To get to the field, I had to take the bus. It was unsanitary and disgusting, but I want to train at River Plate a lot so I have to get used to it!" (side note: the buses are not really that unsanitary and disgusting, but maybe to a first time bus rider the lack of spick and spanness was a shock...)

Luckily, L and C were able to be broken in gradually to riding the buses here in Buenos Aires. Contrary to the typical bus experience*, just as we arrived at the bus stop, an almost empty bus showed up and we were able to sit down all together. They were also able to avoid having to wait for the bus on a rainy day, which has to be one of the most miserable experiences this life has to offer. The one day the girls did get to ride a full bus, C got her foot caught in the door. Somehow neither of them were lost during travel to and from River, as bus drivers here give passengers a very small window to get on or off (my fear was that either L or C wouldn't get on or off in time and would end up alone in the city without a clue of how to get to where they needed to be...)

*Typical BsAs bus experience in a nutshell
  • 10-30 minute wait (or if you're super lucky, the bus might not even come because due to a protest somewhere in the city, the bus had to take a detour and won't pass by the bus stop where you've already been waiting for 40 minutes)
  • one full bus (sometimes more) passing you by without stopping
  • another 5-10 minute wait for the next one 
  • getting herded onto a packed bus, shoved between people, backpacks, and purses while holding onto a pole for dear life as the driver slams the brakes each time he stops to pick up more passengers 
  • watching like a hawk for anybody seated who looks like they might be ready to get up, prepared to fight to the death in order to get that oh-so-precious, recently-vacated seat...
  • if you are lucky enough to find a seat, sliding out before the two people standing over you get into an all out duel for your seat just in time to push the button to finally get off the bus. 
  • jump off as soon as the driver opens the door even if the bus never comes to a complete stop
Another moment of shock for L and C came when we played against San Lorenzo. My coach had invited my aunt, L, C, and C's parents to come to the club before the game to eat breakfast with us and ride with us on the team bus. On game day, we go to the club, eat breakfast, change into our River gear, and... the bus isn't there. After making several desperate calls to club administrators, we are forced to take 6 taxis to San Lorenzo's stadium, about a 40 minute drive. We get to the field with just enough time for a decent warm-up, but when the game's start time comes and goes, the referee's whistle still hasn't signaled the start of the game due to the absence of the required ambulance. After waiting around for about a half hour, the ambulance finally pulls through the gates of San Lorenzo's complex and the game begins. L, C, and their parents witnessed a series events, stemming from a severe lack of organization, which would never occur in a US game, except in extreme circumstances, but are a common occurrence here. We were lucky the ambulance showed up because games are often cancelled and the points awarded by default to the visiting team if there either the required ambulance or police are not present within a certain amount of time from the scheduled kick-off.

When it was finally time for my cousin and her friend to leave, neither of them were ready to head back to the US. They had already become attached to the girls on the team. The bond they developed with my teammates came mainly from the time spent socializing during the merienda in the club's confiteríaLa Máquina, after practice. It is a sacred ritual with our team, in which we all participate after every practice. Some stay for an hour or so while others leave quickly after finishing their tea or café con leche. Either way, it's a part of our routine which the whole team enjoys. Once everybody has finished showering and changing, we all head to the cafeteria, which is basically a restaurant inside the club, where we are served yogurt, orange juice, coffee or tea, and tostados. While we eat, we have the chance to socialize in a different context than in the locker room or on the field.

For my friend Sheeva, a soccer player at Vassar College who trained with River while she was in Buenos Aires for a summer study abroad program, the merienda was where she developed most of her relationships with the girls on the team.

"The post-practice merienda was very new to me. In the US, after practice we usually just get in our car and instantly return to our lives outside of soccer, but the merienda gives everyone a chance to get to know one another in a non-competitive atmosphere. I got the impression that there was more to the team than just practices and games...[The merienda table] was where we made plans for dinner or for the weekends.

Of course, the girls speak very quickly, so I didn't understand all the conversations at the table, but, as a result, I was able to really improve my Spanish. When I didn't understand something, the girls helped me by explaining. Yes, they would get their laughs out of the fact that I can't pronounce my double R's, or if I would stare blankly when they told me the punchline to a joke, but the language barrier didn't stop them from starting conversation. Sometimes the language barrier itself even acted as an interesting topic of conversation."

Having Sheeva, L, and C around for the merienda made for a nice break from being the sole non-native Spanish speaker on the team (except for our Argentine-German player). For once, I wasn't the only one giving blank stares after getting lost in the conversation. At times, the roles were even reversed as the Yanquis would slip into speaking English amongst ourselves, slowly "taking over" River's women's soccer team. Our numbers were reinforced further by the arrival of Gabi, my brilliant teammate from Rice University, another "Argenyanqui"with hopes of playing with the full Argentine national team (she already helped the U-20 Argentine national team to a 2nd place finish at the South American Championships to qualify for last year's U-20 World Cup in Japan). While my teammates gave me a hard time about the so-called "Yanqui" invasion, I know they enjoyed the mix of cultures and backgrounds and the laughs which came from miscommunications and mispronunciations from all sides.

However, as the North American summer comes to a close and a new school year is about to begin, my fellow Yanquis at River (L, C, Sheeva, and Gabi) are leaving me behind in Buenos Aires to fend for myself. Now, I have to readjust to limiting my English to Skyping with my friends and teaching my private students... If my English language abilities start to deteriorate in my blog posts, at least you now know why...